Recently, I attended a dinner gathering, and the conversations during it left a deep impression on me. At the table, my frens had a heated discussion about their criteria for choosing a partner.

Some insist that a partner should be someone who truly loves you. He shared his marital experience with his Chaozhou wife, who is willing to bear multiple children for him and respects his personal space. This fren concluded that finding someone who truly loves you can reduce a lot of troubles in life.

However, another fren immediately presented a different viewpoint. He emphasized that emotions should be mutual, and couples need to understand each other and make concessions. He also pointed out that once they start to keep track of who has contributed what, it may indicate that the feelings have begun to fade.

I believe that both viewpoints have their merits. Emotions are like cause and effect; you reap what you sow. As investment master Duan Yongping said, do the right thing, do long-term things. Both emotions and investments are a long marathon.

In the short term, feelings may fluctuate like the stock market, making them difficult to predict and measure. However, in the long run, sincerity and continuous effort are the determining factors. Being eager for quick results may lead to losses, whereas steady progress is more likely to yield lasting happiness.

In different stages of life, both partners should support each other. Between the ages of 25 and 30, you may need to take on more responsibilities; by the time you reach 40 to 50, it might be your partner's turn to take care of you more. It is important to understand and adapt to this role transition.

Finally, I would like to conclude this topic with an ancient saying: All banquets must come to an end. This applies not only to business occasions but also to the realm of relationships. Cherish the present, and manage with care to reap fulfilling relationships.