This Spring Festival, several friends complained to me: they regret going home for the New Year. It's very difficult to get along with parents/relatives, and a few days of the holiday can lead to a head full of anger. I am grateful to my parents, but I can't say I admire them; there are huge differences in lifestyle and values, which is the root of the tension. The love they give isn't enough to support you in being yourself without worries, and the hatred they give isn't enough to support you abandoning everything and flying away. As people say online,