When men get rich, they must go to a business K "to undergo a tribulation"! It's not about learning bad habits, but about dispelling illusions!

A few days ago, I had a New Year's drink with my cousin. He started from nothing and just turned his life around this year. As soon as he opened his mouth, he said something shocking:
"Bro, when you really make big money, you must go to a business K to undergo a tribulation."
I immediately retorted: Isn't that just spending money for fun?
He shook his head: That's when all your romantic illusions are shattered, and you see human nature clearly.
He shared his experience with me.
Before he made his fortune, like most guys, he regarded delicate, gentle-talking women in his social circle as white moonlight, believing that true love meant being willing to pour out your heart, even exhausting yourself emotionally to the point of insomnia.
Until he was taken to a business K by an elder.
He said that night, he completely "successfully underwent the tribulation."
The women inside, in terms of looks, figure, gentleness, and thoughtfulness, were all top-tier. Their words made you feel like spring breeze, and they cared for your emotions meticulously—more understanding of human nature than the "goddesses" he had pursued before.
But he saw clearly:
Their smiles are trained, their gentleness is professional, and all feelings of infatuation and flirtation are clearly priced.
One second, they look at you with admiration; the next, they turn to another customer with the same look.
No exceptions, no favoritism, and certainly no so-called "love at first sight."
At that moment, he suddenly became sober:
It turns out that the feelings that once haunted you are just emotional value;
What you thought was unique is just an exchange of value.
Since then, he would never overthink a woman's words, never be moved by cheap concern, and certainly wouldn't waste time on ineffective emotional internal conflicts.
It's not about becoming cold, but about thoroughly dispelling illusions.
This is the true meaning of "business K undergoing a tribulation":
It's not about indulging in pleasure, but about seeing the most real human nature and breaking your unrealistic fantasies about love.
When you have experienced trained, gentle kindness, you won't be easily moved by life's superficiality;
When you see the interests behind flirtation clearly, you won't pour your heart out for unworthy people.
True maturity in men begins with dispelling illusions.
Don't be trapped by emotions, don't be confused in your heart—focus your energy on making money, family, and yourself. That’s true clarity.
It's not about teaching you to be realistic, but about teaching you self-protection;
It's not about teaching you to be ruthless, but about keeping you sober.
Overcoming human desire allows you to find your true self. $BB
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