Young man, if you want to achieve your dreams in the coin market, try not to get married first, but instead immerse yourself wholeheartedly in it. Only after you succeed should you plan for the future. This is because investment carries both risks and opportunities, while marriage emphasizes stability and is not good for taking risks. This can create significant obstacles in your work or career as well as in your pursuit of ideals, causing you to hesitate and making it difficult to have the determination to make decisions at critical moments. Especially if the woman is a strong, refined egoist, no matter how hard you work and struggle, your life will not see much improvement.

Since 2019, the ups and downs I've experienced over the past few years are enough to prove that the decentralization of the coin market is fundamentally in opposition to marriage. Decentralization is about achieving freedom and having no spiritual ties, while marriage is a centralized concept; these two things are inherently in conflict. Therefore, in the coin market, if you truly become wealthy in the future, especially accumulating over tens of millions, once the other party gains control over these assets, many conflicts will arise. It would be fine if the other party is a reasonable and intelligent woman, but if she is a domineering and unreasonable strong woman, you would be completely at a loss.

In the second half of 2020, the Bitcoin market was doing very well, with a monthly line of 9 consecutive gains. It had been rising for 9 months since the 3.12 coin disaster. But at that time, I only had a dead salary of three to four thousand dollars a month, and I transferred 85% of it to my mother and child for living expenses, basically living paycheck to paycheck, with no spare money to buy coins. I asked the mother of my child for 8000 yuan to buy some coins, but she refused and tried to brainwash me into thinking that these were virtual investment traps and warned me to be careful not to lose everything. I couldn't be bothered to argue, and helplessly borrowed over 3000 dollars from a colleague to buy 1500 dollars of doge on Huobi, and the rest went to buy 0.1 BTC and a few ETH. At that time, the 20,000 RMB worth of coins could basically double every week, pure spot trading. Just think about how good the market was back then! Because I had no idea how contracts worked at that time. The first LV and Prada bags in my life were bought during that time. Then the mother of my child saw it and changed her tone, saying she would transfer me 6000 yuan to earn a little for herself, and the next day I immediately returned her 8600. Damn, she only comes around when there's a benefit, but ignores me when I'm broke. If I had listened to her and only worked without investing in the coin market, I might still be broke during those two years of the pandemic. Of course, that's another story. By April of the following year, under Musk’s continuous endorsements, doge had accumulated a rise of over 400 times, and I was lucky enough to enjoy an 82-fold profit, cashing out around 0.6. So in the first half of 2021, I fortuitously made my first 1 million RMB return from the coin market. Fortunately, during the pandemic from January 2021 to January 2022, my salary increased by 35%, and I was just able to scrape together some money to continue buying coins.

After the Spring Festival in 2022, the wheels of fate began to turn, and I had a huge breakthrough at work, receiving bonuses ranging from tens of thousands to over a hundred thousand dollars every month, continuously until the end of 2023. In February, the Russia-Ukraine war broke out, and the global capital market entered a bear market cycle. I locked in the expectation that Bitcoin would pull back to its lowest point around November that year, so starting in March, I was preparing to buy the dip this year and was very clear that the price of Bitcoin would definitely break $100,000 in the next bull market. Because I started to receive substantial bonuses at work and was financially comfortable, I began to exchange a lot of USDT and saved it in advance. As the saying goes, when wealth comes, it can't be stopped. Starting in March, a colleague introduced me to several part-time jobs building websites for others to gain search engine traffic, earning an extra $200,000 in just a few months, which was a nice bonus. Therefore, by the end of 2022, I only spent a small portion of my savings to quickly hold 18.2 Bitcoins and over 200 ETH, accumulating sufficient chips for future coin-based contracts. In March 2023, during the transition from bear to bull market, my account profit suddenly exceeded 6 million RMB, while Bitcoin was around $25,000. During those two years of trading coins, I was basically living alone, going back and forth between home and work, which gave me ample time to think and operate. With a bit of luck, my life suddenly rose. If I had been tied down by family during those two years, I might still be working as a cog in the corporate machine. Of course, without trading coins, my income after 2022 would still have been considerable, but my life might have lacked a lot of color.